COOL Coaching® – Chilembo Optimal Outcomes Life Coaching®
Personal Change Management Innovation®
With COOL Coaching® you will attain Successful Living Through Magic and Wonder®
- When you find you have more worrisome questions than enlightening answers; or when you realize you are in such a quagmire you can’t even find any questions to ask at all;
- When you fail to jump the LastHurdle® to the realization of your cherished goals and dreams due to constraints you cannot explain;
- When you find it hard to make difficult choices regarding crucial aspects and conditions of your life;
- When you feel your zest for living has dwindled or is dwindling; or…
- When you simply want to make more sense of your reality, we will engage you in an NLP- inspired ChiWall-MindGames® process of verbal sparring, systematically asking you Engaging and Insightful Questions from the things you say and how you say them. This process will also induce in you moments of deep silence and reflection, thereby allowing you to connect more consciously with the base of your intuition. That way helping you to have a much more thorough and much deeper analysis and understanding of issues at hand till satisfactory answers and, by extension, lasting solutions are identified; often with an “Aha!” experience leading to profound elation at the realization that the answers have in fact been there in front of you all the time!
COOL Coaching® helps us toget insight as to how you relate to life from the manner in which you describe your reality, and your experience of it, through language, both verbal and non-verbal.
The words you select and the way you use them in your spoken language both reflect and shape your attitudes to all aspects of life. You can consciously or unconsciously use words and language to build/ uplift or destroy your way of living.COOL Coaching® will heighten your awareness regarding how you express your feelings and thoughts to others, as well as how you yourself relate to your own thoughts and feelings in a cognitive way.
At the core of COOL Coaching® is the encapsulation of our mission and vision: To help you define and design your very own quality, sustainable Peak Performance Lifestyle with the ability to SeeIntoTheFuture® and be better all the time at what you already do well from before.
NB: The definitions of concepts below as applied in COOL Coaching® are conceptually and operationally mainly Simon Chilembo’s.
- Chi: Vital force in all things (Oriental Philosophy). From the Chilembo surname, the prefix Chi stands for greatness, both in terms of magnitude and status (Central/ East Africa).
- COOLCoaching®: A systematic, process-oriented, forward-looking method of finding and applyingjust the right kind of solutions unique only to yourself and your circumstances relative to the ecology here and now, forming a basis for constant effective dealing with inevitable new challenges in the future. The ultimate goal is to empower you to get BETTER ALL THE TIME! as you wish.
- LastHurdle®: The very last adamant challenge or set of challenges apparent when solutions/ desired outcomes actually do seem to be within reach but still remain unattainable.
- ChiWall-MindGames®: ChiWall refers to the (subjective) protective life energy around us; manifest according to the kind of moods we from time to time find ourselves in. It’s also about how we arrange and relate to the ecology to affect our moods. MindGames refers to the imagery and motivations our language use induce in us as we interact with the ecology. Positive language use should give positive MindGames, and the other way round, thereby leading to positive attitudes and actions. Knowledge of life and things, as well as experience are most crucial here. Need to be refreshed constantly in order to keep up with ever changing times.
- YourGlOw®: Linked to ChiWall above. The idea being that the more positive your ChiWall the more radiant your personal glow, or aura, and even charisma.
- Peak Performance Lifestyle: Leading your life just according to your visions, aspirations, and hopes to just the highest level attainable for you given who you are, where you are and when, what you know or do not know, as well as your values and beliefs. All this with absolute minimum actual or potential danger to yourself and/ or the ecology.
- Successful Living Through Magic and Wonder®: Relates to the kind of profound joy people often manifest upon the realization that, indeed, “The answer, my friend, is blowing in the wind…!”. It often immediately all seems so flabbergastingly simple and obvious once the cure or solutions are identified and applied to living. Some have described the experience as occurring extremely fast, appearing like a sudden dazzling flash of light coming from nowhere. It seems to be a magical and wondrous experience hard to explain in detail; must be experienced to be understood.
- Why should I see and be seen with greater vigour?
ANSWER: If you want to make things happen in relation to your aspirations in life, if you want to improve your relations with other people, if you want to influence others, to effect change of behavior and attitudes, it is important that you are noticed and are taken seriously. It’s about how you carry and present yourself; it’s about class and style; it’s about the self-confidence you exude through YourGlOw® as defined above. It’s also a total package of communication skills from how you verbally and non-verbally project your thoughts and views to how credible you look and sound in front of others, as well as in front of your self.
- What areas of personal development can COOL Coaching® help me?
ANSWER: Some examples:-
- Personal change management with changing life situations and circumstances. e.g. relocations, loss of valuable things or loved ones
- Strategic Choice and Decision Making
- Leadership - Winning attitude: VictoryStateOfMind®cultivation*
- Image grooming to bring forth the SuperStarInYou®
- Crisis Management
- Target/ goal achievements
- Team-building - Improving quality of personal relations
- Low sense of self-esteem
- Loss of faith in the good of life and living
- Strengthening and enhancement of your own personal belief systems
- Creativity enhancement: AwakeningTheGeniusInYou®
- Moral and Ethical Awareness sensitization
- Communication Skills: Inter Personal/ Public/ Media Relations
- Why must I choose COOL Coaching®?
COOL Coaching® is a synthesis of Simon Chilembo’s formal NLP Master Practitioner training and his total life experience. Having moved a lot and lived in different places since childhood, a multicultural-multiethnic by and from birth, Simon has been there and has seen it all.
Movement is change; dealing with change both for better or for worse can drain personal energy and vitality, dampening YourGlOw®, thereby inhibiting both the full experience and expression of the joy of life. Successful dealing with change, and adapting to new circumstances and ecologies, requires therefore the ability to harness one’s energy/ vitality-giving resources effectively. This is the natural ingress point for COOL Coaching®.
Talking about life together with his Karate teacher in London several years ago, the latter said, ”Simon, we are immigrant children doing impossible things!” But time after time we make it happen, and ever come out unbroken in the end. On his part Simon has lived and continues to live by the motto: CHANGE, WIN, ADAPT, OR DIE!*
By choosingCOOL Coaching® you’ll be coming to receive help, guidance, advice, as well as counseling by a most versatile, self-confident, future-oriented, innovative, sensitive, confidential, empathetic, joyful, highly-experienced, and cultured Cosmopolitan people-type Life Coach.
As a polished international Martial Arts teacher and Master, an acknowledged highly skilled Therapeutic Massage Therapist, a former Banker, an entrepreneur, Philanthropist, and language pedagogue, Simon has worked very closely and intimately with people of all ages and stations in life since he was 17 years of age. Because COOL Coaching® is derived and developed from his real life experience, Simon Chilembo can with confidence:
- help you tackle change and live with it more effectively
- help you fine-tune your ability to make hard choices and decisions less arduously
- through VictoryStateOfMind® cultivationhelp make a winner* out of you
- help you work out strategies to adapt if you can neither change nor win
- help you improve and refine yourall-round Communication Skills: Inter Personal/ Public/ Media Relations
- help you excel even more with the things you already are good at.
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find me, unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate;
I am the captain of my soul.
(By William Ernest Henley; 1849-1903)
FEE: NOK 570,-/ 30 min. (or per deal agreed upon according to client’s needs, goals, and expectations.
e.g. Pay for 10 sessions: NOK 4 950,-; save NOK 750,-)
For more information, bookings, and appointments do not hesitate to contact:
SIMON CHILEMBO, NLP Master Practitioner/ Life Coach, COOL Coaching®
ENERVITAL Helse & Velvære/ Health & Wellness
Cort Adelers gate 33, 1. etg.
Tel.: +47 97000488/ +27717454115 (South Africa)
(Photos by: Henrik Beckheim)